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Regret Is Fuel, Not Poison
I can't stop wishing I'd done it differently.
That wish is fuel. Burn it in the engine, not in the cabin.
The sting of 'I wish I hadn't' is exactly what powers real change — as long as it drives action instead of just replaying the tape. Feel it, use it, move.
Use it when: Old mistakes resurfacing at 2am, apologies you still owe, chances you missed.
Backed by: 2 Corinthians 7:10 — "godly sorrow worketh repentance... but the sorrow of the world worketh death." Same feeling, two destinations, your choice of engine.
What He’d say
There are two kinds of sorrow: one works change, one just works you over. The sting you feel can drive the engine or fill the cabin with smoke. Bring it to me — I'll show you the engine.
(His words from the passage above, spoken to you.)
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