Do It First, Love It After

I don't feel like it, so I shouldn't have to.

Feelings follow actions. Serve first; the caring shows up on the job.

Nobody feels passionate about a calling, a workout, or the dishes in advance. You act, and somewhere in the acting, the love arrives. Waiting to feel like it means waiting forever.

Use it when: Callings you didn't ask for, ministering visits, family duties.

Backed by: President Monson taught it plainly: whom we serve, we love. The order matters — service first, love second.

What He’d say

Serve first. I'll send the love while your hands are busy — that's how I built hearts to work. Whom you serve, you will come to love.

(His words from the passage above, spoken to you.)

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